‘I was putting bags in the back of my husband’s truck when I noticed his hard hat upside down on the seat. My eyes filled with tears.’: Wife finds sweet message on husband’s equipment

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“I borrowed my husband’s truck to run an errand a couple of days ago.

I was putting some bags in the back when I noticed his hard hat was upside down on the seat.

I noticed something written inside so I looked closer to see the word ‘family.’

My husband is an instructor and teaches mostly young men in a challenging trade.

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He’s told me of how he often tells them to write what motivates them to succeed on the inside of their hard hats.

This way, when things get tough, they have a visible reminder of why they are working so hard.

He never told me that he wrote in his, too.

So when I saw the word ‘family’ there in his hard hat, my eyes filled with tears.

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Family.

His family.

Our family is what drives him to succeed.

Day after day, week after week, year after year.

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When he faces challenges and hardships he keeps putting that hard hat on his head because he’s carrying a family on his shoulders.

Then I thought for a moment about what I would write in my own proverbial hard hat.

And I had many ideas but ultimately I landed on family, too.

Because I don’t ever want to work to impress my friends or one-up my neighbors.

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I don’t want to work to drive the fanciest cars or carry the latest iPhone. I don’t want to spend my time trying to be something I’m not.

I just want to raise my family.

And no matter what comes my way, I’ll keep pushing forward.

For my family.”

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wife finding reason why husband is motivated at work in his hard hat
Courtesy of Jenn Kish

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