“I initially set a goal of a 30-day break from alcohol. What I would discover in that 30 days would change my life forever.”
- Love What Matters
- Trauma & Healing
“I initially set a goal of a 30-day break from alcohol. What I would discover in that 30 days would change my life forever.”
“Your existence matters. Your life matters. Your feelings matter.”
“I have learned to not run away from, but to go through the pain, to get to the other side.”
“My paternal grandparents sacrificed their retirement to step in as my caregivers. They never once made me feel like a burden.”
“They’d ask if I burned myself or bleached my skin. The ‘popular’ boys barked at me and called me a pit bull. I’d wear long-sleeved shirts to cover my arms, even in extreme heat while on the verge of passing out. I really, really wanted to fit in. But then I realized this is the only body I get, and I deserve to enjoy all that this life has to offer.”
Adoption is bittersweet, but the pain and trauma can be lessened when appropriate transition plans promoting connection and communication are in place.
“In being their fan, I am actively engaging with my ethnic identity for the first time in my life.”
“More than half of my life is blurry due to everything that was happening, but I never stopped digging. I wanted to see and face the truth.”
“It’s been a month since my son Wesley was born. It also marks one month since one of the worst days of my life.”
“Just reach out your hand and tell them, ‘You’ll be alright.’”