“People will tell you I’ll be ‘delayed,’ but by whose standards? I’ll get there in my own time, on my own terms. Life is to be enjoyed, not to be measured by what I can do and at what age I do it.”
- Love What Matters
- Trauma & Healing
- Discrimination
“People will tell you I’ll be ‘delayed,’ but by whose standards? I’ll get there in my own time, on my own terms. Life is to be enjoyed, not to be measured by what I can do and at what age I do it.”
“The current state of the world is becoming the new excuse as to why families like mine don’t get the help we need.”
“I grew up believing I was not only difficult to place, but difficult to love—until I discovered I possessed the power to choose the words, thoughts, and beliefs that would accompany me through my day and, ultimately, my life.”
“All I knew was I was scared of ‘love.’ I didn’t want it. In fact, I wanted to run from it like it was the plague. I wish I could go back and hold myself like I held my siblings. I wish I could tell little Jas that real love was coming. An angel on earth. The most adorable, bi-racial boy with the biggest dimples and largest afro I had ever seen.”
“For the last 35 years, my mother kept the truth. Like an archaeologist, I had unearthed a hidden secret.”
“In our society, a mother suffers guilt no matter what she does. If you listen to everyone else, you’re always going to fall short.”
“We all know it takes two people to create another human, but females take the brunt of the hard and ugly things that come along with being a parent.”
“I can’t just wait for someone else to do something. And I thought, this is it, I’m doing it.”
“This is real life. These are the parts your Black friends don’t tell you, because we exist in the world you create for us in your head.”
“The doors you opened echo throughout time like Arthur pulling the sword from the stone.”