“There was no growing into it–just like a band-aid, I ripped off all fear and nerves, and dove right in.”
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“There was no growing into it–just like a band-aid, I ripped off all fear and nerves, and dove right in.”
“The daily to-do lists, the making of dinner, the taking out the trash, the taking care of the kids, the trying to take care of yourself, the trying to foster all the relationships (friends, family, kids, work) on top of your spouse.”
“On the day I was not sure how much more grief I could bare. It was the right thing, at exactly the right time. And I don’t think that’s a coincidence, friends.”
“Finally, everything started to make sense. There was a reason behind all my ‘ways.’”
“In a matter of 6 months, I became a wife, stepmom, and immigrant in a country whose customs and language were completely different.”
“Sometimes people think that people with Down syndrome are all the same, but we are not. We are all different and have our own personalities.”
“I’m sick of justifying myself. I’m sick of defending myself. I’m sick of crying for my inner child who had to hide.”
“I do love our daughter’s tiny little hand in ours, but I’ll always still need his hand to make it through the take-offs and landings in life.”
“All I knew was I was scared of ‘love.’ I didn’t want it. In fact, I wanted to run from it like it was the plague. I wish I could go back and hold myself like I held my siblings. I wish I could tell little Jas that real love was coming. An angel on earth. The most adorable, bi-racial boy with the biggest dimples and largest afro I had ever seen.”
“The medical examiner handed me the two most symbolic pieces left of his life—his wedding band and St. Christopher’s Medal around his neck, marred and tangled in char and plastic.”