Overthinking is a dangerous rabbit hole that’s incredibly painful to go down.
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Overthinking is a dangerous rabbit hole that’s incredibly painful to go down.
There could be a way to help have your feelings reciprocated.
“I lived in constant hypervigilance due to posttraumatic stress from the abuse, and in my eyes, I didn’t deserve him. I was waiting for the moment he would either stop talking to me or try to use me.”
“You have come too far to not require the healthy love you deserve. There is someone out there who will treat you correctly, and that person is worth the wait.”
“What we lacked in time together and hand-holding, we gained in thousands of handwritten words for one another.”
“If you wait long enough, if you stop telling yourself you’re not settling and you wait – this exists. A person who will let you know, from the very beginning, that you’re the person they’re with forever.”
“Practicing personal development as a couple is you are constantly communicating freely and truly, you learn about yourself, each other, and you both as a couple.”
“After the second or third date, she called it off. It absolutely broke me, which felt silly after such a short period of time, but I didn’t want to lose her before I even had her.”
“I used to be with someone who justified every action of violence as love for me. Someone who justified the crazy behaviors and outrageous outbursts in public as love for me. I was embarrassed and humiliated 98% of the time. And I must say, that type of love was dangerous. That type of love was toxic.”
“I don’t want hundreds of dollars spent on materialistic things. I don’t have to have my face and name all over my husband’s social media. I don’t want the Hallmark idea of marriage. I want our perfect.”