“Infertility is complex, it is all consuming, and more than anything else…it is unpredictable.”
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“Infertility is complex, it is all consuming, and more than anything else…it is unpredictable.”
“Alcohol was a coping skill, a mood enhancer, a party buffer. It was present at every family get together I’ve been a part of. It was normal to BYOB to first holy communion lunches, summertime fires, and every Sunday after 8:30 a.m. mass. We were a drinking family and always have been.”
“Almost 6 years ago, I experienced this trauma. This was just a routine appointment. But as I sat in that waiting room, I felt my heart speed up. I felt my chest tighten.”
“Instead of feeling supported in disclosing my mental health history, I felt defensive. Called out by the form. Turned off by its questions. Ashamed.”
“‘Don’t get your hopes up. The sample didn’t look good. In fact, I’m not even going to charge you for the visit today.’ As we left the clinic, I had an empty feeling in the pit of my stomach. This was never going to work.”
“It’s okay to admit this load you are carrying is too heavy at times, and it’s okay to be tired of it all.”
“Not willing to accept this as my new normal or wait for happiness to just HAPPEN to me, I started being honest with myself and others and decided to depend on the only person that could truly control my happiness… ME.”
“I’ve learned much in the two years since Max passed. We’re each doing the best we can.”
“We still are learning, but we are taking this on with all we have and doing our best.”
“We are no longer shielding our kiddo from school shootings. If children his age are dying, he deserves to know what he’s up against.”