“I’ve figured out who I am without alcohol. I feel like I’ve found the secret to my life.”
- Love What Matters
- Family
- Motherhood
“I’ve figured out who I am without alcohol. I feel like I’ve found the secret to my life.”
Sobriety is a chance to rediscover yourself.
“Throughout the journey we kept imagining what it would be like meeting Alpha for the first time, playing it over and over in our minds. But nothing could prepare us for how it really was.”
“Your hands don’t grip mine as tightly. You still need me, but not in the way you once did. I can feel you slipping.”
“‘Mom, I know how she feels. She wants you but she doesn’t.’ He gently took her out of my arms, wrapped them both in a blanket, and walked out in the rain. I watched my son, who I fought to love for what felt like a lifetime, create a safe space, like I’d tried to do so many times for him.”
“I made one of the biggest mistakes a parent could make: I was irresponsible. I waited for the Child Services to arrive. I wondered if they’d take her away from us. If they did, would we be able to say goodbye? Would they give us a second chance?”
“We are not meant to do it all. Even if we are being asked to by the world.”
“‘There is no way I could do this with three kids.’ But there is so much loss in foster care and adoption and I felt strongly that losing a sibling was not something I ever wanted any part of, so within a few breaths, I said yes.”
“I’m talking about the minutiae of daily life. What a gift this is.”
“I wish I could embrace my 24-year-old self and show her she makes it through to the other side.”