“10 years, 9 kids, 1 grandson later, and I’m still fostering. This is not about me, my feelings, or my needs.”
My Quest To Change The Foster Care System
How Being A Mother Became My Greatest Accomplishment, And Greatest Sacrifice
“I always knew there would be multiple versions of my children. What I didn’t consider is the many versions of myself parenthood would require me to be.”
How Becoming An Adoptive Mom Helped Me Find Self-Worth
“It’s messy, beautiful, and heartbreaking on all levels, and it is the identity I am proudest of.”
Why I Love Being A Single Foster Mom
“If I had to go back and do it again, I wouldn’t change the lessons I’ve learned, the stress I’ve had, or the current uncertainty to make life easier.”
Give Yourself The Gift Of Being Present This Holiday Season
“Take a minute to linger and look at the lights as we drive home. Have dessert together after dinner. Read just one more Christmas story. Stop always thinking about the next thing.”
How I Found Sobriety As A Special Needs Mom
“My only regret is not getting sober sooner.”
5 Tips For Conquering Single Foster Parenting
Foster parenting is not easy, but it is the most rewarding experience I’ve ever had.
An Open Letter To The Newly Single Mother—You Are Strong Enough
“I wish I could turn back time and tell myself that I am enough and do not deserve this.”
My House Is Filled With Black Santas As A Foster Mom—Here’s Why
“When it comes to the spirit of Christmas and what the spirit of Santa is all about, it should not be about race. It’s not about black or white.”
Dear Newly Adopted Son, Our Family Picture Isn’t Complete Without You In It
“If you could see inside my heart, you’d see there’s no measuring cup in all the world big enough to hold my love for you.”