“As much as I love being a witness to my kids’ becomings, I grieve the moments swallowed up by the years.”
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“As much as I love being a witness to my kids’ becomings, I grieve the moments swallowed up by the years.”
“While it’s exhausting, it’s your greatest joy to worry, care for, and love your children.”
“Our children are our future, and they live in an increasingly difficult and confusing world, so the most important thing we can teach them is that they are important, capable, and loved!”
“Now when I say she is ‘scared’ of me, I am really talking about a healthy kind of fear I think every step kid should have for their stepmom.”
“Many of the current state laws would have forced me to endure unspeakable suffering, would have reactivated my mother’s trauma, and without a doubt would mean my amazing, beautiful daughter would not exist today.”
“I was terrified the entire pregnancy we would lose her just like we lost Jasmine.”
“I don’t know how to be in a blended family any more than you do. I know I’m not the best at communicating my feelings, but I need you to know I am doing the very best I can.”
“Last night I opened up a gallery of family photos my firstborn chose to be a part of. I scrolled through candid snapshots of a vacation she wanted to be at. I watched videos of her, fully comfortable existing within our home, and I wept.”
“I’m done feeling bad about never getting that first-day picture Instagram-perfect. I do not have the will or creativity to create a chalkboard sign. Our moms in the ’80s had it right.”
“Because our children need so much from us, that feeling of ‘am I doing enough’ always seems to be at the forefront.”