Based in New York City, Sophia San Filippo has worked with Love What Matters as a lead editor and content curator since early 2019 and has acted as Managing Editor since early 2021. She is a Summa Cum Laude graduate of Binghamton University who holds a Bachelor of Arts in English Literature, Creative Writing, and Women, Gender, & Sexuality Studies. She is passionate about personal storytelling and creating a positive space in media to better the lives of others. On a typical day you can find her rocking out at her local concert venue, admiring nature, or baking her latest kitchen experiment.
‘I shouldn’t have yelled so much. I should have been more patient. I should have let them let loose.’: Mom reflects on e-learning experience in wake of school reopening crisis
“With only 5 more days left in my kids’ school year and their return to brick and mortar in the fall, I’m looking back. I didn’t savor more of the days, moments, and precious, never-can-I-get-it back time with my children.”
My Grandmother Always Had Geraniums In Her Window And Today, Without Realizing It, I Brought Some Home
“The last year of her life was completely stolen from her by Covid. I’m holding a place for her here. And I always will.”
‘Days before his 24th birthday, we received messages. ‘Jake has not shown up for work or class.’ His roommates hadn’t seen him.’: Woman navigates grief after losing brother to suicide, sister and nieces to car accident
“Exactly 2 months later, my sister and two beautiful nieces were killed in a car accident. I heard phrases like ‘everything happens for a reason’ more times than I can count. I was told my sadness was a result of my lack of gratitude and my focusing on the negative. I was encouraged to move on, to forget, to focus on the positive and live in gratitude with love.”
The Life Of An Abandoned Daughter
“I wait on the stoop in my dirty sneakers until the street lights come on. Until the sky turns shades of pink and red, the same color as my broken heart. I wait until I hear the train go over the track. I keep telling myself I’ll wait five more minutes. I wait until another car drives down my block. It’s not the right color.”
I Owe It To My Kids To Allow Them To See My Mistakes
“I am not a supermom, I am a human. My children will gain so much more by seeing my flaws and imperfections.”
We Went On A Marriage Retreat To Save Our Family
“Our love was beautiful and extraordinary for a good stretch, until it wasn’t.”
‘They’re the ones you call when you need to vent, or talk about nothing at all. The minute you hear their voices, you know you’re safe.’: Woman shares ode to long-time friends
“They don’t judge you. They don’t tell you what to do. They simply rally. And they pull you close. The minute you hear their voices, you know you’re safe. There is nobody like a friend you’ve known for years who can instantly remind you of who you are.”
Forget About The Finer Details, The Reservations, The Scheduling—Go Into This Summer Saying YES
“Most of my time last summer was spent worrying; absolutely consumed with trying to figure out how to make everything perfect. The perfect moments. The perfect getaways. The perfect adventures.”
The Time Has Come To Normalize The Mom Bod
“I felt confident in my body. I ate healthy and worked out all the time. I was skinny. Then, I became a mommy.”
‘I heard a gunshot and I don’t know where Michael is. What do I do?!’: Woman starts suicide prevention initiative after losing both brothers to suicide
“I came home from school to find Stephen in the backyard smoking a cigarette and crying. He broke down and told me he had thoughts about wanting to end his life. He said the world would be ‘better off without him.’ After losing him, we did not anticipate Michael would die by suicide as well just nine years later.”