Devon Ledbetter is a writer and editor based in Florida. She holds a BA in English from Florida State University. She currently formerly worked as a Digital Editor with Love What Matters and has previously had works published with College Magazine and Her Campus. Her favorite pastimes include beach trips, baking, and concerts. You can learn more about Devon through her portfolio https://dnl16b.wixsite.com/ledbetter-portfolio
To The Sweet Friend Who Chose To Uplift Me, Not Knowing I Was Vulnerable, Thank You
“I am not weak, I am tired.”
‘I could perpetuate the cycle or I could give my babies better.’: Mom urges others to break the cycle of generational trauma, ‘We can create change’
“Wherever you sit in your place of motherhood, you have a path. Take it in stride. Honor yourself in this journey.”
‘If you’ve ever wondered what love looks like, it’s this.’: Mom shares touching and humorous ‘DadDash’ co-parenting story, ‘He’s one of my best friends’
“Kyle shopped (a thing he hates) on his day off from kids, in the middle of the night, to help keep me sane. The interaction was minimal. But the impact was incredible.”
‘At 14, my menstrual cycle stopped and my stomach grew. How can I tell my mother?’: Teen mom overcomes grief, addiction to get three degrees and raise daughter
“I want young moms and people who are going through a hard season to know it is okay to start over. You are not going to get everything right, and there is power in knowing it. You are not weak. It takes more strength to acknowledge where you are and make a change to improve your life.”
‘She created a series of dolls to give representation to the least represented.’: Mom creates diversity dolls so her daughters can celebrate all differences
“Then something unexpected happened. A person neither of us knew reached out, wondering if they could have a doll made specifically for their niece who had a vascular anomaly. The auntie wanted to show her niece she should be proud of who she is and being different is powerful.”
‘Get a REALLY big washing machine. Also a cleaner if you can. And possibly a nanny.’: Mom to 4 boys shares hilariously honest parenting advice
“4. Just admit to yourself now you’re never going to make cool enough car or gun noises. This is a gift I swear only males are blessed with.”
‘I heard a 6-year-old girl come up to Tucker and exclaim, ‘Look at me! I am skin-nay!’ My heart sank instantly.’: Mom urges importance of teaching self love, ‘My girls deserve better, and so do yours’
“I knew this would happen, but I just wanted to grab her and stick her in a bubble where society can’t tell her what is beautiful and what is ugly. That she isn’t worthy of love or happiness if she doesn’t look a certain way.”
‘I worked with a girl who loathed me. I could tell she wanted to break my spirit. But my goal was to love her through it.’: Woman shows the power of kindness, ‘Love can heal a heart’
“If she rolled her eyes, I would act like I didn’t see it. If she ignored me in the hall, I would say hi anyway. If she said my writing was bad, I’d take her critiques, say thank you, and leave her office with a smile.”
‘I didn’t want baby Ocean to feel as if we were replacing her.’: Mom navigates loss of child while pregnant with rainbow baby
“The grief never goes away, it will always demand to be felt, but I promise you there is so much JOY ahead.”
‘I’d already checked out when I saw someone carrying a box of ornaments. I couldn’t imagine staring at them for 6 weeks, but I knew my daughter would love them.’: Mom reflects on the sacrifices of motherhood
“I ran to the back of the store, hopeful to find an item I didn’t like.”